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One decision, one room, one disciplined session

Facilitation

A neutral hand on the process when the stakes are high and the room is divided.

Pre-session design and interviews
1–2 weeks
Session
Half-day, full-day, or 2–3 day offsite
Output package delivery
Within 3 business days
Optional follow-through review
30 days post-session
Delivery
On-site strongly preferred; remote available

Facilitation applies the front half of the framework — Clarify and Comprehend, and often Construct — to a single session or offsite. The value is in the structure, not in the facilitator's opinions. I hold the process; the group owns the content.

Most high-stakes group sessions fail on one of three things. They begin with solutions before establishing what is true, so the discussion is a contest between preferences. They allow status to substitute for evidence, so the most senior or most confident voice wins by default. Or they end with apparent agreement that turns out to have been each participant hearing a different commitment. Every one of these is a process failure with a structural remedy.

A facilitated session opens by separating facts from constraints from preferences, in writing, visible to the room. This is unglamorous and it changes the conversation immediately, because it becomes impossible to assert a preference as a constraint once the columns are on the wall. It also surfaces the disagreements that people were managing around rather than through — the actual reason the group has been unable to decide.

Where the session produces a plan, it is built to MAP standard before anyone leaves: three to five objectives, named owners, measurement sources, and dates. A session that ends with the group agreeing to circulate a document has not produced a decision. A session that ends with four objectives, four names, and four dates has.

For post-failure reviews, the After Action Review structure is used exactly as written: what was supposed to happen, what actually happened, why the difference, what will be done differently. The framing is deliberate and it is stated to the room at the outset — the review evaluates the plan, not the people. Without that framing, participants manage their exposure and the review produces nothing usable.

Who this is for

  • Leadership teams entering a planning cycle that has previously produced documents rather than decisions
  • Groups where the loudest participant reliably determines the outcome
  • Boards, partnerships, and family businesses working through a decision with relationship stakes
  • Post-incident or post-failure reviews requiring a genuine After Action Review rather than a blame allocation
  • Merger and integration sessions where two groups need shared terminology before they can plan

Who this is not for

Stated plainly, because a wrong fit costs you months.

  • Sessions where the decision has already been made and facilitation is being used to manufacture consent
  • Situations requiring formal mediation or legal process
  • Groups unwilling to have the actual disagreement named out loud in the room

Included

What the engagement includes

Pre-session design
Structured intake with the sponsor plus confidential pre-interviews with participants to identify the real trigger and the disagreements not being said aloud.
Facilitated session delivery
Half-day, full-day, or multi-day offsite, run to a designed agenda with visible fact, constraint, and resource capture.
Live documentation
Facts, constraints, resources, decisions, and dissent captured visibly during the session rather than reconstructed afterward.
Session output package
A written record delivered within three business days: decisions made, objectives with owners and dates, unresolved items, and documented dissent.
Optional MAP construction
Where the session produces a plan, it is built to MAP standard before adjournment — objectives, owners, measures, contingencies.
Optional follow-through review
A thirty-day check on whether session commitments are being met, which is the difference between a good session and a result.

Outcomes

What you leave with

  • Facts, constraints, and preferences separated in writing and visible to everyone
  • The actual disagreement named rather than managed around
  • Decisions with named owners and dates, not action items to be circulated
  • Documented dissent, so unspoken objections do not resurface as passive resistance
  • A defensible written record of what the group decided and why

Investment

Per session

Priced by session length and pre-session design requirements, plus travel where on-site. [VERIFY] Published rates pending.